Friday, July 27, 2012

Kyle's 5k- July Blog 4: Letters from Mom & Mimi


Dear Ellie,

This past Saturday was the Kyle Russell Callahan Scholarship 5k to raise money for the memorial we set up in your brother’s name.   Your Aunt Ally set a goal of $10,000 this year… we not only met it but also exceeded it!  Through very kind donations, we raised $12,000!

When we woke up early on the day of the 5k, we saw a rainy, chilly day but I believe that Kyle was with us, stopped the rain when the race began, and gave us cool weather to allow those runners and walkers a beautiful breeze. Even through a misty rain, it was a smile kind of day… better yet, a Kyle kind of day.  The winner of our 5k won with a time of just over 20 minutes- WOW! 
(this is our winner Scott Martell)

Your Mimi and I had to laugh as you definitely embodied Kyle’s spirit at the event by living life to the fullest.  You cheered for the runners at the finish line, you played in the sand, and you enjoyed the park.  Your energy was infectious and I know Kyle was with all of us.  I also know he was watching us proudly.  I know this because just before we set off the runners, we released butterflies.  Your Dad opened up his envelope and the butterfly flew right over to you, landed on your ear, and stayed on the side of your head for quite sometime before flying off.  

I wonder if Kyle was whispering to you that he was with us and he watches over you.

You are probably too young and won’t have many memories of the day so I wanted to show it to you through the beautiful pictures that Jackie took.  I hope you get a sense of how special it was. 



Here is the speech I gave prior to the start.   

Welcome to our 3rd Annual Kyle Russell Callahan Scholarship 5k!

During Kyle’s 11 days, selfishly I begged God to let Kyle live.  Never in my wildest dreams did I think that my prayers would be answered like this.  Despite his passing 3 years ago, Kyle’s spirit is living on in a BIG way.  Kyle’s scholarship is growing larger and the recipients carry Kyle’s mission with them.  This year’s winner of the scholarship is here to join us.  She wrote to my family a few words that I would like to share aloud:

“The foundation you have supplied me with is irreplaceable.  I promise to carry all of you with me throughout my future.  Kyle has left the biggest imprint on my heart and he will touch many more in the future.”

Madeline, I am so proud to say that I was able to teach you so many years ago and that our lives crossed again now.  You are an outstanding young woman who is so worthy to have been selected.  I am honored that Kyle’s name will live on through you in your future path!

Kyle is also living on through friends and family who take our Kyle bag with them on their journeys- this truly touches our hearts.  Thank you for thinking of us at your most important times.  Kyle taught us that relationships matter and you all just enforce that.  Our neon green Kyle bag has been our 5k mementos since we started this event.  Two years ago, Donna and Wes Moore took it to Europe with them and snapped their pictures overseas with the bag and thus began our album of “Where in the World is Kyle’s Bag?”  Thank you for coming up with this amazing idea Donna and Wes!  I am in awe that so many would think of Kyle and us on their family vacations, weddings, proms, birthdays, and other special occasions.  Kyle’s bag has been pictured at many sports venues, parks, zoos, and with many famous characters.  It has traveled all over the United States and has been spotted in many countries throughout the world.  I think we have 200 pictures in our album thus far.  As I viewed the slide show again, I knew the stories behind the images you all sent because of the kind details you shared with me.  From the bottom of my heart, I thank you for being so selfless and allowing Kyle’s memory to live on with you on your travels!  I want to encourage you to continue to tag me on Facebook with your Kyle adventures to make a sequel slideshow for next year’s 5k.   

I need to thank all those who are supporting us from afar, who couldn’t be here today but still donated and sponsored Kyle’s sister Ellie in the walk.  We feel your well-wishes and prayers today!

I need to thank our sponsors Vicon for the TV and Scott’s Landscaping for the waters.  I want to say that I appreciate my husband for loving Kyle without limits and you’ve helped make this walk better each year by reaching out into the community and for also putting in so many hours to make the “Where in the World is Kyle’s Bag” slideshow flawless.  I want to thank Jackie for always photographically documenting the 5k so perfectly- your images always capture Kyle’s spirit.  Thank you to the Stigale family for the release of the butterflies- I believe they are symbols for life after death and they give me such a sense of comfort.  Thank you Sowash Family for the use of your generator.  Thank you Gram & Pop for the bananas and Gram Bubbles for the pretzels. Thank you Steve for the ice.  Thank you Ryan & Samantha, my grandparents, Natalie, and the Colkitt family for always waking up early and helping us set up.  And Ally, you are our rock- always being here year after year to set our goals and run our registration table- you were there for us during Kyle’s life and now after his death.  I am also so appreciative of my parents- without them, none of us would be here at this park today.  When Justin and I were grieving after Kyle’s passing, it was their idea to start and begin the initial funding for the scholarship.  To enable us to channel our grief into something so positive, I will be forever indebted to you.  Thank you for loving Kyle as much as we do.  You give so much of your time and money to make the 5k bigger each year and words cannot express how much that means to me.  And finally- for all of you here, thank you for taking time out of your day and busy weekends to celebrate Kyle’s 11-day life.  I know many of you traveled far to be here with us and we feel so loved and supported.  Kyle’s time on earth may have been small but his lasting imprint is huge. 

I am also including the link to the slideshow that your Dad made… “Where in the World is Kyle’s Bag.” 


This played on a loop the whole morning of the 5k.  In your Dad’s speech, he talked about how he noticed all of the genuine smiles in all of the pictures in the slideshow he made.  He said that for every tear we shed for Kyle, there were at least 10 smiles he gave us.  Your Dad asked the participants of the race to smile and enjoy their time with family and friends and being together.  After all, that’s what Kyle did- he brought family and friends together!  Your Dad also shared our relationship and the journey that we took since Kyle’s passing.  He noted that a lot of couples could easily be broken with the loss of a child but we got stronger through the help, love, and support of all of our family and friends.  I think your Dad did a fantastic job with the race, with the slideshow, and with his speech.  I know that both Kyle and you inherited your Dad’s strength and determination.  

We love you Ellie!
Love,
Mom & Mimi

Friday, July 20, 2012

Creative Writing: July Blog 3- Letters from Mom & Mimi

Dear Ellie Spaghetti,

Tomorrow is Kyle’s 5k and this always brings such a mixture of emotions- nervous excitement and grieving devotion.  I want to make sure everything goes just right to honor your brother and make sure his memory stays alive.  We feel so supported and blessed by such wonderful family and friends who really are the ones that make the event a success.  And Ellie, I am so happy that you are a part of celebrating your brother’s life and legacy!  I will tell you all about it in next week’s blog.

This has been such a busy week getting everything ready for the 5k.  So to still continue with our creative writing theme (but taking a month break from our Ellie and the Magic Teapot adventure stories), we are trying our hand at writing poetry.

So as for our guidelines: your Mimi tried to make this easy on me and started.  Her writing is in italics and mine is in regular font.  Last week, we attempted a limerick.  This week, we are trying a haiku poem (which is a Japanese poem with 17 syllables, in three lines of five, seven, and five).  I’m learning a lot about writing while working with your Mimi on this blog (poetry is definitely out of my comfort zone)!  So here’s what we came up with:

Children

Giggles and playmates
Sing a-longs and story reads
Eyes of wonder, hearts anew.

Lively vivacious
Full of life and zealous
Passionate small ones.

Boisterous and bashful
Running freely here and there
Delightful young souls.

Fearless and stubborn
Seeing the world fresh
Believing in magic

Innocence, sweet scents
Tussled hair and mismatched clothes
Heaven’s gift to us.

Impressionable
Future leaders and teachers
They will change the earth.

We love you Ellie!
Mom & Mimi

Thursday, July 12, 2012

Creative Writing: July Blog 2- Letters from Mom & Mimi

Hi Ellie Bean,

This month is a bit crazy with all the family visits.  So to still continue with our creative writing theme (but taking a month break from our Ellie and the Magic Teapot adventure stories), we are trying our hand at writing poetry.  Now for your Mimi, this is nothing new… she has been writing poetry for years and has her grandmother’s gift of words.  But for me, this is a leap as poetry is about rhythm and I have none!

So as for our guidelines: your Mimi tried to make this easy on me and started.  Her writing is in italics and mine is in regular font.  Our first poem is a limerick because of its AABBA structure.  I’m learning a lot about writing while working with your Mimi on this blog!  So here’s what we came up with:

Ellie’s Silly Week Poem

There once was a girl named Ellie.
Who loved to eat PB and jelly.
Each day would begin
With a spoon and a grin
As she filled her growling belly.

On Sunday she’d stop at the park.
She never went when it was dark.
She’d whoosh down the slide
The swings next for a ride.
Quite happy she’d sing like a lark.
On Monday she’d ride her bike.
The one with 3 wheels called a tryke.
She could peddle quite fast
Always having a blast.
It didn’t matter she was just a tyke.
On Tuesday she’d visit the zoo.
Beginning with exhibits brand new.
The giraffes she liked best.
And train rides for a rest.
Happily bouncing like a kangaroo.
On Wednesday she went to the sitter.
Who let her make pictures with glitter.
Oh the mess it would make
When she gave it a shake
Making a mound of sparkling litter.

On Thursday she watched dad’s game.
Her cheer for him was always the same.
“Let’s go Dad, hit a home run!”
Then sit on his shoulders after he won.
“I like baseball!” she would exclaim!
On Friday she’d shop at the store.
To search through the toys galore.
She would pick up a book
With Tinkerbell and Hook.
Buying the same one as the week before.

On Saturday she swam in the pool.
The water was nice, crisp, and cool.
Into her mother’s arms she would leap.
And splash around in water knee-deep.
Ellie learned to paddle and kick at swim school.
Daily skyping was her routine.
Mimi and Poppy would say “Hi Ellie Bean!”
They would laugh, chat, and play.
And the miles seem not so far away.
Their goodbye was a hug to its screen.
At day’s end she would say a prayer
With a kiss and a hug to share.
Mom turns off her light
With a whispered “Good Night…
Sweet dreams Ellie girl so fair.”

We love you Ellie Bean and I know you are having a great time this summer seeing a lot of family and friends!
Love,
Mom & Mimi

Friday, July 6, 2012

Ellie and the Magic Teapot Off to the Park: July Blog 1- Letters from Mom & Mimi

Hi Ellie Bean,

And so we will end our second story.  Your Mimi and I had a hard time concluding this one as we fell in love with the characters.  We felt we knew them intimately (especially because so much of you, Ellie Bean, is woven into their personalities).  But it’s always important to know when it’s time to say good-bye… this quote by Walt Disney rings true, “Always leave them wanting more.” 

And now here is our yearlong bedtime story/stories (with many chapters to write!) for you. 

So as for our weekly guidelines: I write a piece, then your Mimi has to finish it and we will do this every week (your Mimi’s part is in italics and mine is in regular font).  The only things your Mimi and I agreed on were the characters- Ellie and a magic teapot.  Anything else is fair game.  We also need to figure out an illustration to go with our part.  Our goal Ellie is to have a beloved bedtime tale for you and future generations.   

Ellie and the Magic Teapot: Off to the Park Part 12

Skeeter was kicking the dirt on The Hill with his feet while the rest of Red Team went over to shake hands with the Pink Team. 

Slyguy said to Lion, “Gosh, it looked like you guys had such a good time playing.  You really know how to have fun.”

Slugger overheard Slyguy and shook his head in agreement as he shook Ellie’s hand and whispered, “I wish we were on your team.”

Alfy, Ajax, and Abner reached their hands out to Shortstop and Speedy for a handshake but they got all tangled and the group fell onto the ground and couldn’t help but laugh at each other.  “This looks more like a congratulatory hug!” giggled Shortstop who managed to be on top of the pile.

It was among these celebratory moments that everyone heard Skeeter howl in pain.  Concerned, the two teams all immediately turned their heads and saw Skeeter hopping around on one foot while holding his other foot in his arms.  They could see his toe throbbing in redness.

“Are you ok Skeeter?” asked Lion compassionately.

He scowled at him then winced in pain and explained, “When I was kicking the dirt I didn’t see that rock.”  Everyone looked down near his foot and saw a jagged stone jutting out of the ground. 

“You know Skeeter, I had a bump on my leg this afternoon and I forgot I had this,” Ellie said as she reached into her black pants’ pocket and pulled out a reusable plastic ice cube that was swathed in fur, made to look like a rabbit.  Ellie saw Skeeter eyeing it skeptically.  “The fur is what keeps the plastic ice cube cold for a long time, it acts like a cooler,” Ellie described.  She bent down gently and pushed the cube against his toe.  Skeeter jumped, startled by how cold the ice cube really was but then relaxed as his wound became numb and the pain lessoned.  Lion came over a short time later with Mary’s band-aid from their pile.  “Let me wrap it with this now,” he said to Skeeter, “It will help protect your toe and hopefully keep the swelling down.” 

As Skeeter was getting his toe bandaged, his face relaxed and he looked around at what used to be two distinct teams but now were just a bunch of friends hanging out as equals.

“Why are helping you me?” Skeeter asked out to the group.

“You may be competitive Skeeter but you’re our friend,” Slyguy answered.

“It’s admirable that you will go to great lengths to win Skeeter but you need to know your limits.  Remember winning isn’t everything,” Ellie softly scolded.

“I don’t know why you stayed with me the whole time,” Skeeter said acknowledging the Red Team, “Gosh, I was a real jerk.  I don’t understand why I become such a sore sport.”

“Everyone feels different things Skeeter but it’s important to recognize that in yourself so that you can stop it, especially when it’s just a game.  You need to control your emotions not let your emotions control you,” Lion reminded him.

“I guess I owe everyone a big apology,” Skeeter started but before he could finish, there was a horn blowing in the distance.

Skeeter slapped his hand on his forehead knowing that the Queen was beckoning for him.  “I hope the Queen is as kind as you all.  I really skimped out on my duties today at the Ant Farm.  I guess I need to say I’m sorry to the colony now too.  Don’t worry Red Team, I will tell the Colony that it was me who came up with the idea to play hooky and that I blackmailed you all to come along.”

“Blackmailed?” Abner asked curiously.

“Yeah, I told them I would tell the Queen that they were the ones that stole the desserts from storage room the other night even though I knew it wasn’t them,” Skeeter admitted sheepishly.

“So you know who really did it?” Abner asked astonished and a bit upset after going without dessert last night.

“It was me.  I got up at midnight the night before and was really hungry.  The soldier ants fell asleep on the job so it was easy to sneak in without getting noticed.  But after I stole the food, I didn’t want to get in trouble,” Skeeter said red-faced.

“Well, I guess it’s time that you face the consequences Skeeter,” Ajax said.

“I need to learn how to be a team player.  I bet the Queen will make me be a carpenter as punishment.  It’s the hardest job around here,” Skeeter explained to Ellie and Lion, “They build the ant pile and it’s hard labor.”

“No Skeeter, I bet the Queen has another job in mind,” Alfy said, “I bet she puts you in charge of the nursery.  You could probably do a lot of good teaching the younger ants what you learned today.  Come on, I’ll walk with you down to the Queen.  I know it can be scary telling the truth.”  They joined arms and before walking down toward the Ant Farm, they said good-bye to Ellie and Lion…

“Well the Scavenger Game was certainly a lot of fun Lion!  I had a great time, even though Skeeter was a poor sport for most of it.  I do believe though he learned a valuable lesson on how one should act and react when playing a game.  How about you Lion… did you have a good time?” asked Ellie.

“I did Ellie.  I really did.  Who would have thought that playing with ants could provide so much entertainment?” Lion responded, “And I think you are correct about Skeeter learning a valuable lesson.  I just hope from now on he really works hard at becoming a positive role model in team leadership.  But right now don’t you think it is time we get back to your house before your mom realizes we are gone?”

“Yeah.  I guess we had better get back,” yawned Ellie.  “I’m kind of tired.  Lion, do you have the teapot?”

“No.  I don’t.  I found it was too awkward carrying it all around while we were scavenging items, so I set it down on the picnic table underneath the pavilion when our team was over there,” he answered. 

“Ok.  Well, if we walk over to the pavilion can you retrieve it and walk it over to the water fountain near the parks entrance?” asked Ellie.

“Sure.  And then what?” questioned Lion.

“Listen carefully,” and Ellie laid out her plan while she and Lion set out for the other side of the park.  Once there she directed Lion, “I want you to stand directly beneath the water fountain bowl and hold the teapot upright with its lid open.  Then I will crawl up the side of the fountain and once I’m at the top, I will sit on the operating knob.  I will shift my weight as best I can and try to aim the waters spray just far enough so that it will spill over the side.  Hopefully I’ll have enough strength in my body to hold the knob down long enough for the water to fill the teapot to its brim.  When we’ve accomplished that, you need to signal me so that I know when to crawl back down the side of the fountain and put my feet back on solid ground.  As for the signal I want you to use… hmmmmmm… what would be a good signal?  Oh I’ve got it.  How about… you whistle?” 

“Brilliant idea!” beamed Lion.  And the two friends followed Ellie’s plan to a ‘T’.

Now that she was standing next to Lion again, Ellie pulled their two tiny teacups out of her pants’ pocket giving one to Lion while she held the other.  “All right Lion… while you pour our tea, I will say the magic words that will take us home.”  So Lion tipped the teapot, and Ellie spoke the magic words, “Baooohhhaoooahaljaljljljafooj”.  That quickly rainbow colored glitter swirled through the air while music filled their ears lifting both Ellie and Lion up, up, up and in a blink of an eye set them down on the blue chairs sidled up to Ellie’s red table located in her bedroom.

At that same moment Ellie’s mom walked in to her room to apologize for being on the phone so long and was about to suggest that they now go to the park when she noticed something odd.

“Ellie-bean,” her mom hesitated while looking down at Lions furry body.  “How did your Lion get grass stains up and down its legs?  And where did your tutu go?”  And then she shifted her focus to the area around Ellie’s shoes… “And where did that little pile of brown dirt come from on your white carpet?” Getting down on her knees for a closer examination, Ellie’s mom realized something was amiss.  Something was moving.  “Ahhhhhhhh… Ants!” she screamed.   Jumping up she rushed out of the bedroom and practically flew down the steps reaching the garage in record time.   She was in search of the spray ‘Ant Be Gone’ and knew exactly what shelf to find it on.

Ellie giggled, “Come on Lion, we only have a matter of minutes to get our little insect friends out of here and take them where they will be safe before mom returns.”  Seeing what she thought was a nod of approval from Lion, she scooped him up in one hand and the tiny ants in her other hand.  Dashing out of her bedroom and quickly running down the steps for the front door, she passed her mom running up the steps.  “I’ll be right back mom.  I need to find my hat and sunglasses,” she fibbed.

“Alright.  I’m going to be a few extra minutes anyway,” her mom fretted.  “I don’t like bugs and I have to figure out where those ones in your bedroom came from.  Maybe I’ll just spray everywhere and say good riddance to those creepy crawly creatures!” she said somewhat distractedly and to know one in particular.

Once downstairs Ellie tiptoed to the front door and opened it ever so slowly so that it did not make a sound.  She then crouched down and released her ant friends to the outdoors.  Holding Lion tightly, she took his arm into hers and together they waved goodbye as the insects marched away.  She whispered after them, “Anytime you need extra team-mates for another Scavenger Game, Lion and I will be ready, willing and able!  Till next time little friends… till next time!”  Then she stepped back inside the house closing the door softly behind her.  Walking over to the coffee table, Ellie picked up her pink flowered hat and butterfly sunglasses.   Placing them on her head she yelled up the stairs, “I’m ready to go to the park mom!  And I know a fun game we can play.  You just need to bring a pencil and a piece of paper so we can make a list of some unusual items to find!” Then she winked at Lion, her mischievousness partner and together they ascended the stairs to get her mom.  They were ready for a park adventure… again.

We love you Ellie Bean!
Love,
Mom & Mimi

Friday, June 29, 2012

Ellie and the Magic Teapot Off to the Park: June Blog 5- Letters from Mom & Mimi


Dear Elle,

Your Mimi left on Monday and it was so hard to say good-bye (even though we will see her back east in just a few weeks).   We had such a great last few days with her… 
going to a princess tea party, 
hanging out at the indoor park (as it was incredibly hot outside), 
eating a fabulous dinner at Brio,
and finally taking you to your very first movie called Brave! 

Now it’s time to firm up Kyle’s 5k Walk/Run plans to make sure everything is in order.  Your Aunt Ally (who runs the registration table) has set our yearly goal to be $10,000.  I thought she was way too optimistic but as it turns out with pre-registration forms, we just might break that record!  Can you tell I am getting so excited to honor your brother in such a positive way?  

And I always feel so blessed Bean that you get to take part in it.

If you remember from last week, your Mimi had such an incredibly busy but extremely fun visit that your Mimi didn’t get a chance to write her chapter of the blog (as you were attached to her hip!).  So this week’s blog will only be your Mimi’s chapter to read.  Next week, we will return to our normal routine and both write to conclude our ant story. 

And now here is our yearlong bedtime story/stories (with many chapters to write!) for you.  Our goal Ellie is to have a beloved bedtime tale for you and future generations.   

And so we will continue our second story. 

Ellie and the Magic Teapot: Off to the Park Part 11 (Mimi’s chapter)

Skeeter's body tensed as he relived how his team found their last scavenged item and tried to figure out where he could have cut time to win.  Searching through his memory he decided to start with the moment his team walked off The Hill in search of the Band-Aid.  At that precise time, they were so far ahead of The Pink Team that it should have been a sure win for The Red Team or so he thought…

“Skeeter, look to the left.  Luck is with us again as we search for the last scavenged item on the list!” Slyguy yelled out as he jumped up and down with sheer excitement.   

With a sore behind and a slightly embarrassed ego, Skeeter stole a look.  And that look was enough to revive his spirit.  No more than ten marching steps away from where the group stood sat a little girl and her mommy who were rolling a ball back and forth over the smooth velvety grass.  “Holy cow!” Skeeter breathed with surprise while blinking twice to make sure what he saw was actually real.  “The Hill is right behind us and the last item to be found, the Band-Aid, is right in front of us!” he continued. 

“Actually four Band-Aids Skeeter!”  Slugger smiled.  “And they’re all on that little girl’s right shin.  It should be easy for us to grab one and run it back to The Hill before the Pink Team returns, don’t you think?”

“Yeah, I do think that Slugger.  Winning this game is going to be way too easy!  Somebody pinch me so that I know this is real and I’m not dreaming it!” Skeeter arrogantly replied.

“Uh-ok,” Shortstop responded while giving Skeeter’s upper left arm a good hard pinch.

“Ow!  Have you gone crazy Shortstop?  Why did you pinch me?” scolded Skeeter.

“Duh… because you said to,” Shortstop answered tersely.

Speedy interrupted, “OK you two, stop it.  Let’s concentrate on getting one of those Band-Aids off that little girls leg, laying it on our pile and claiming the win!”

“Yeah, and then we can finally be done with this game,” Shortstop mumbled under his breath. 

Skeeter glared at him. 

Slyguy broke the tense moment by whispering to the group to fall into place and tiptoe towards the little girl.  As they neared her ankle, one by one they hopped on Slyguy’s shoulders and attached themselves to her leg.  Crawling towards the first Band-Aid, a cartoon Giraffe, the five ants moved very slowly as they didn’t want to tickle her skin.  But when they went to grab it, it stayed stuck to her leg.

“You’ve got to be kidding,” Skeeter said frustratingly.  “This Band-Aid has so much sticky gummy substance on it that I don’t think we can pull it off… not today or any day for that matter.”

“Not to worry Skeeter,” encouraged Speedy.  “Lucky for us there are more Band-Aids to try.  Let’s crawl to the next one, the cartoon monkey, which is only an inch above this one and work on removing it quickly.”

So they did.  Again the five ants came upon the same problem.  That Band-Aid was also stuck to the little girls leg like cement.

“Urghhhh!” Skeeter seethed.

“Easy Skeeter.  Take a breath.  There are still two Band-Aids we haven’t tried so let’s just move to the next one, the cartoon peacock.  Hopefully it peels right off, as it’s only about eight ant-steps above this one. ” Speedy encouraged calmly. 

So they did.  And again the five ants came upon the same problem.  That Band-Aid too was stuck to the little girls leg like cement.

Skeeter was so mad that he didn’t wait for the rest of the group and stomped off towards the fourth and last Band-Aid, the cartoon bunny rabbit, by himself.  One of its curved corners where the sticky gummy substance had worn off was slightly curled up so Skeeter edged himself into it further trying to roll it like a bulldozer pushing a boulder!  But all his stomping and nudging apparently tickled the little girl and she started to rub the Band-Aid with the palm of her hand.  Slyguy, Speedy, Slugger and Shortsop watched on in horror, fascination and shock as the little girl rubbed and rubbed the Band-Aid and continued rubbing it until it had molded into the shape of a tiny ball with a crazed Skeeter stuck in its middle.  As the last edge of the Band-Aid detached itself from her shin, gravity took hold of the weighted mass and pulled it towards the earth.   The befuddled four ants watched Skeeter’s bugged out eyes roll from side to side, around and around while his shrieking wail grew louder and louder only to be silenced quickly when the Band-Aid hit the grassy ground with a hard thump.

“Uh-oh, here we go again,” said Speedy.

“GET… ME... OUT... OF… HERE!” garbled Skeeter.

“ We will Skeeter, but not yet.  It’s going to take some time to free you from the inside of this sticky, gummy Band-Aid.  So our plan is to take it as it is and march it back to our pile as fast as we can to claim the Red Team’s Victory!” finished Speedy.  And before anyone could respond, Speedy directed Slyguy, Slugger, and Shortstop to circle the Band-Aid, grab an end and run with it.

“No-no-no-no!  I need to take part in the delivery of this scavenged item… I am the leader of the Red Team!  I am the winner!” shouted Skeeter.

“Oh stop your whining Skeeter.  As far as being in charge of our team and leading the scavenged item to our pile… well, looking at you at this very moment you ARE the whole package,” chuckled Slugger, “You and the Band-Aid can be our 1st place Trophy!”

“And then this game will be over and we can get back to work before Queen Ant finds out that we played hooky today!” added Shortstop.

As the Red Team ascended The Hill to their surprise the Pink Team had somehow beaten them back.  And they were proudly standing next to their completed scavenged pile, which they rightly deserved to be.  Shortstop, Slugger, Slyguy and Speedy knew the Pink Team played the game fair and square as well as smarter and kinder.  And even though they were happy that Alfy’s team finally won a game against them, the four ants were annoyed with Skeeter for constantly being such a poor sport.  So instead of just setting the last scavenged item, the Band-Aid along with Skeeter down on their own pile they gave it a good toss missing it completely.  As it rolled in the dirt settling itself next to a rock, Skeeter was finally freed from the Band-Aids middle giving him a chance to finally vent his anger.

“Cheaters!” he screamed…  

We love you Ellie Jelly Bean!
Mom & Mimi

Friday, June 22, 2012

Ellie and the Magic Teapot Off to the Park: June Blog 4- Letters from Mom & Mimi


Hi Ellie!

Unfortunately your Poppy had to go home on Sunday but your Mimi is still visiting and we are having the BEST girls’ week!  During their time here, we have stayed very busy playing at the park, 

walking around the zoo, 



shopping at the mall, 

hosting an ice cream sundae play date with your close friends, 

and making delicious dinners.  You had your first mani/pedi (done by your Mimi), 

had your first tent experience, 

and you tried to join our game of UpWords.  

Your Mimi and I have even made some grown-up time for the two of us by going to see the play Adams Family last night (such great talent and a wonderful script),

getting our nails done, and watching The Borgias first season.

It has been such a hectic and eventful week that your Mimi didn’t get a chance to write her chapter of the blog (Aunt Joanne has dubbed you Velcro Baby because you are attached to your Mimi’s hip- hence the lack of computer time for her!).  So I have added my chapter and your Mimi’s will be added next week.

And now here is our yearlong bedtime story/stories (with many chapters to write!) for you.  Our goal Ellie is to have a beloved bedtime tale for you and future generations.   

And so we will continue our second story. 

Ellie and the Magic Teapot: Off to the Park Part 11 (Mom’s chapter)

"Well, it looks like we gave it a good run boys.  Oh sorry Ellie, you're not a boy.  And Ellie too," Abner said with his head down discouraged.

"What are you talking about?  No giving up yet.  The race isn't over," scolded Lion.  His last name was very fitting, Braveheart.

"But the Red Team was already here and gone in search of their last item," Ajax said not entirely convinced, "We haven't even stepped off The Hill yet.  And our last item, the watermelon rind, is going to be too heavy to carry back from the pavilion."

"Who said we have to get it from the pavilion?" Ellie offered hope.

"Where else would we get it from?  That's where most of the families were having picnics throughout lunch.  And Ellie, you don't have any more helpful gadgets to get something so heavy back up here.  It's ok; we are always losers when we play against Skeeter.  We're used to it," Alfy went to sit down (showing that he had quit) but his legs got tangled up and he ended up rolling backwards down The Hill. 

This time Alfy's fall wasn't so funny.  This time, it looked very severe as he tumbled like a wheel down the steep decline.  The Pink Team, still staring in disbelief from the top, yelled down to him, "Alfy!  Alfy?  Alfy!"  They couldn't see him anymore because once he got to the bottom; he rolled right into the thistle bush.  Ellie, Lion, and the two ants shuddered thinking of poor Alfy's discomfort, thistle bushes hurt!

The rest of the Pink Team took off still screaming his name.  When they approached the enormous thistle bush, they stopped because they heard Alfy's voice and they tried to assess where it was coming from before they started into the maze.  They expected his voice to be full of pain and panic but instead he sounded excited and energetic. 

"Hey Guys, you're never going to believe this," he cried running out of the bush smacking into Abner.  Thistles covered Alfy's body but he didn't seem to notice.  As Alfy explained what he found, his friends picked the thistles out of his body (they weren't very deep as Alfy's armored body protected him from deep cuts), "Remember when the Red Team used the slingshot to get their watermelon here and missed The Hill?  Well there are still pieces left from when it broke.  Guys, we have our watermelon rind!!!"   

Lion and Ellie looked at each other not quite believing their ears (and their luck).  Abner whispered, "Could it really be that easy?"

Before anyone could offer him an answer, they heard lots of bickering coming from the Red Team.  The Pink Team knew the Red Team wasn't far off.

"We haven't lost yet boys and Ellie!" Alfy shouted taking the lead.  The ants told Lion, and Ellie to stay where they were (they didn't have the tough exterior like the ants did).  Alfy, Abner, and Ajax ran in (ignoring the thistles that poked them) and pulled out the edge of the watermelon rind.  It was a small piece so with teamwork the Pink Team easily carried it quickly up The Hill. 

Just as they deposited the rind on their pile, the Red Team came up the other side with their last find.  Skeeter, seeing the thistle thorns covering the ants on the Pink Team, realized how he had lost.  "NO WAY YOU CHEATERS!  THAT WAS OUR WATERMELON RIND!"  He looked like he was about to explode. 

Ellie said gently, "We didn't break any rules Skeeter.  We won fair and square."

Love you Bean!
Mom & Mimi

Friday, June 15, 2012

Ellie and the Magic Teapot Off to the Park: June Blog 3- Letters from Mom & Mimi


Hi Ellie!

Mimi and Poppy are here!!!  And we are having the best time (and I feel so blessed to be able to celebrate Father’s Day with my Dad this year)!





We are missing your Dad terribly though, especially because he is away on business for Father’s Day.  He is the best, most adoring father.  I love watching him with you.  




Ellie, you are so very loved.

And now here is our yearlong bedtime story/stories (with many chapters to write!) for you. 

So as for our weekly guidelines: I write a piece, then your Mimi has to finish it and we will do this every week (your Mimi’s part is in italics and mine is in regular font).  The only things your Mimi and I agreed on were the characters- Ellie and a magic teapot.  Anything else is fair game.  We also need to figure out an illustration to go with our part.  Our goal Ellie is to have a beloved bedtime tale for you and future generations.    

And so we will continue our second story. 

Ellie and the Magic Teapot: Off to the Park Part 10


Ellie, Lion, and the ants were all whistling as they skipped away from dropping off the drumsticks.  They couldn’t help but feel happy… not because they were winning (because it was still just about a tied race) but because they were genuinely having a good time. 

“Ok Pink Team, what do we have left on our list left to scavenge?” Lion redirected as they were among the blades of grass out of the Red Team’s watchful eye.

“A watermelon rind and one of Gertie Garden’s shedded snakeskin,” said an all-knowing Alfy (but as he shook in fear as he said Gertie’s name, he lost his balance and fell on his back).  The Pink Team giggled with him at his clumsiness, which took away from the nervousness they felt when it came to Gertie.

“You know what Guys?  I think we just need to face our fear and get the snakeskin over with.  Now where can we find Gertie?” Ellie bravely suggested.

The ants glanced at each with apprehension filling their eyes.  All Abner could do was point.  Ajax whispered, “She eats ants.”

“Don’t worry,” Lion said reassuringly, “we will protect you.”

They shuffled toward the direction that Abner pointed and came across what used to be Gertie’s home but now had a giant boulder over the entrance.  The Pink Team looked at each other at first confused but then knew exactly who placed the large rock here.  It was then that the Pink Team heard a faint whimpering.  They looked around but didn’t see anyone.  The whimpering turned to a louder sobbing and it seemed to be coming from the Korean Feather Reed Grass right next to Gertie’s house. 

“It’s a trick,” Abner warned, “She’s setting a trap to get us to come to her before she gobbles us up for lunch.”

“That cry sounds real,” Ellie said confidently as she marched through the blades of three-foot high grass.  Lion and then the ants followed her; they were a team after all.

“Gertie?”  Ellie prompted as she came face to face with the snake.  Large tears pooled in the snakes eyes, then overflowed down her cheeks before they dripped down at Ellie’s feet making a small puddle that splashed up as more tears landed.  Ellie stepped back to avoid getting too wet.

“All of my clothes that I love are stuck in my house.  I can’t move that rock to get in to get my things,” Gertie wailed, “Why would those ants do such a thing?”

“Gertie, the Red Team is afraid of you,” Alfy answered bravely but also taking a few steps back because he too had heard the stories of Gertie munching on ants for snacks.

“Afraid of me?  But why?” Gertie asked curiously… “Oh, you all think I will eat you.  I guess that explains why I have no friends.  You think I am a common garden snake.”

“You’re not?” Abner asked disbelievingly.
 
“No!” Gertie said with insulted, “You shouldn’t stereotype just because I’m a snake.  We’re not all the same.”

“Then what are you?” Ajax asked softening a bit.

“My parents are from Southeast Asia, we are tentacled snakes.  We eat aquatic plants.  That’s why my house is here next to the park’s lake.  I actually spend most of my time in water but I just love fashion so much, I can’t help but come out on land and dress up sometimes,” Gertie sighed, “I don’t have any friends so I try to make myself look pretty in hopes of getting someone to like me.  But now I know that will never happen since people just assume I’m going to eat them.  If I had my house back, I would just crawl under my covers.  Maybe I should just go back to the water.”

Lion was feeling very sad for Gertie.  What an awful life to have people think you are something you are not.  “Can we help you get that rock off of your front step so you can get back into your house?” he asked.

Gertie’s eyes lit up, “I would really appreciate it.  But I suppose you also need something from me for that game.”

Ellie knew that Gertie felt like she was being used.  “Can we make a fair trade?”

“What do you mean?” Gertie asked curiously.

“Well you like fashion right?  I saw you eyeing up my pink tutu when I walked over.  How about I give you my tutu and you give us one of your old shedded skins,” Ellie said as she pulled off the tulle skirt.  It got stuck on her yellow shirt and Lion offered her some help.  “I can do it,” she said as she waved him away tugging it free.  Her black pants underneath looked very bare without it.

“YES please!” shouted Gertie who couldn’t pass up a fashion opportunity.

“Let’s get moving, that rock looks mighty heavy,” Abner said leading the group back to Gertie’s house.

They underestimated Lion’s enormous strength and within minutes, the boulder was pushed off.  Gertie ran inside and reappeared seconds later with one of her old skins hanging from her teeth.

“If I had arms, I would hug you all,” she said already wearing Ellie’s tutu.  Ellie giggled though and readjusted it by pulling it down because Gertie had put it up around her neck.

“We will tell the other ants about you Gertie.  We are very sorry that we judged you before we knew you.  Maybe we could come back and visit once this game is over,” Alfy said as he waved good-bye. 

“I would like that very much,” Gertie replied with a smile and nodding her head as the Pink Team thanked her before turning their attention back to the game. 

Lion, Ellie, and the ants took off toward The Hill with Gertie’s skin above their heads.  They learned that working as a group and carrying these heavier items made the trip back faster.  But as soon as they stepped onto the top of The Hill, they realized the Red Team had already been there and they were already gone too.  The fishing pole Ellie accidentally left behind from the last round was now standing next to their opponents pile.  The Pink Team was now losing.  Both teams only had one more item to retrieve… it was down to the last round. They knew they had to act fast…


“Did you just see that?”  Slyguy hesitated.  “The Pink Team just passed us.  And they did it with a smile on their face!”

“Yeah, but did you also see that they had some of the Queen Ant’s marching band members with them,” added Speedy.  “Do you think that means that the Queen Ant knows we aren’t…”

Skeeter quickly interrupted, “Stop it!  Stop overanalyzing the Pink Team’s last find.   The Queen Ant knows nothing.  Let’s just leave it at that!”  He finished, a bit nervous as well as frustrated.

“I hope you’re right Skeeter,” Slugger answered, his voice slowly rising with every word, “You promised us we wouldn’t get caught!”  

“Alright, alright… we won’t!  We’ve got two more items to find.  Once we win this game, we’ll return to The Ant Farm and sneak into Tunnel 3’s back door.  No one will be the wiser,” Skeeter answered a little too confidently before redirecting the focus, “Now who knows what is still left for us to find on the Scavenger List?”

Shortstop raised his hand, “I do.”

Skeeter rolled his eyes, “And that would be…”

“Oh.  That would be a yellow Frisbee and a band-aid,” Shortstop answered with less intimidation and more confidence this time.

“A Frisbee and a band-aid.  Huh…what do you think guys?  Any ideas as to which one we have a better chance at retrieving this round?”  Skeeter asked.  “Because I sure don’t.  I haven’t seen a band-aid on our travels so far, but then again I wasn’t really zeroing in on one.  And the only Frisbee I saw was clear across the Park.  If we go after that one, we will never make it back to The Hill first.”

“Uhhhhh, guys… look over here!” summoned Speedy while pointing to a spot between the two teams’ piles.

“Holy Cow!  A fishing pole!” an enthusiastic Slugger yelled out.

Skeeter raised his eyebrows at Slugger before scolding him, “Excuse me… the game?  Did you forget the importance of winning the game?  I will NOT lose to Alfy and his misfit team! Slugger, you can go fishing later.  Right now FOCUS!”

“But I am focused Skeeter!” Slugger answered with annoyance, “Don’t you see… the fishing pole can help us.”

“How so?”  Skeeter questioned disbelievingly.

“Well, if we cast it out towards the Frisbee, maybe we can hook it, reel it in and place it on our scavenged pile,” continued Slugger.

“Why that’s a fantastic idea!  Let’s do it!”  Skeeter yelled out, “Retrieving the Frisbee quickly will definitely put us way ahead of the Pink Team.  And while we are at it, let’s make sure they know that we are faster, better and smarter at playing this game than they are!”

“And how are we going to do that?”  Shortstop asked not really liking Skeeter’s idea.

Skeeter’s answer oozed cockiness, “Well, I think it is pretty obvious that they got careless.  Looks to me like little Miss Ellie forgot to take her fishing pole along with them and left it for us to use in our search.  And to leave it out in plain sight like this… why, I feel they were begging us to take it,” he continued, “So let’s show them how they are going to lose the game!  When we retrieve the Frisbee and lay it on our pile, let’s make sure to stand the fishing pole upright right next to our prized find so those misfits realize that their precious Ellie and Lion flubbed up and most probably will have cost them the game!  That will teach them a lesson not to mess with us!“  He ended with determination, “Now let’s go!”

The other four team members looked sheepishly at Skeeter, shrugged their shoulders and figured that they might as well go along with him.  Only two more scavenged items to claim and this game would be finished.  They certainly did not want to get on Skeeter’s bad side now.

“Ok, so who knows how to use this thing?”  Skeeter asked the group.

“I bet Slugger would be our best bet as he has the strongest and most powerful arms of all,” offered Slyguy, “Let’s have him give it a try.”

“I’m game,” responded Slugger.  He demanded everyone to step behind him as he picked up the fishing pole, freed the fish hook from the wire, swung the pole over his right shoulder and quickly pressed the release button on the bale so that when he cast his fishing pole forward the fishing line went sailing through the air.  But there was a slight glitch in this step-by-step process.  When Slugger pressed the button and cast forward, he didn’t realize that the fish hook was dangling a bit too close to Skeeter and snagged him by his behind sailing him through the air also!

“Owwwwwwwwch!  Hellllllllllllllp!  Sluggerrrrrrrrrr!”  Were the only words Shortstop, Speedy, Slyguy and Slugger could hear before Skeeter’s voice faded into the wind.

“Uh-oh.  He’s going to be really mad at me,” sputtered Slugger, “What should I do?”

“Uh-oh is right!  Mad is putting it mildly.  He’s going to be super angry and super sore for a super long time!”  Chimed Shortstop, “If you don’t want it to be worse than what it already is, I suggest you aim for that Frisbee dead on and reel it in on your first try!  We’re all rooting for you Slugger,” cheered Speedy and Slyguy.  But as the group of ants watched the scenario unfold, they couldn’t contain themselves any longer and fell to the ground in a fit of giggles!
 
Luckily for Slugger, he snagged the Frisbee on the first try.  Now that could have been because Skeeter’s added weight helped drop the hook at just the right time catching the Frisbee’s edge, or it could have been because Skeeter himself banged into its center allowing the hook to dig in rather than sail over it, or it could have been sheer luck.  No matter, once the Frisbee was hooked, Slugger reeled it in as quickly as he could.  And what a sight it was.  The yellow Frisbee bounced along the ground dozens of times trying so hard to take flight, but with Skeeter plastered to its middle, the Frisbee just couldn’t seem to get more than three or four feet off the ground.  Slugger continued to reel in the Frisbee guiding it up The Hill and once there, he let it drop onto their scavenged pile.  Unfortunately Skeeter was underneath it and started to scream, “Somebody get this thing off of me!  Hurry up!  And unhook me from this barbaric stick too!  My behind is sore and my head is spinning!  Slugger, Speedy, Shortstop, Slyguy... somebody’s going to pay for this!  Come on… hurry up and get me out of here!”

The four ants froze.  Before freeing Skeeter, they hoped his temper would subside a bit, but the longer they delayed the angrier Skeeter became.  “Somebody better get me out of here NOW!!  Don’t make me count to 10 or you’ll all be sorry!   One… Two… Three…”

It was Shortstop who moved first, “Alright Skeeter.  Stay still so Slugger can use the fishing pole to hoist the Frisbee up on its side.”  Once Skeeter calmed down, Slugger dug his feet into the ground and maneuvered the rod to lift the Frisbee.  “Alright Skeeter,” Continued Shortstop, “Now Slyguy is going to climb up and release the hook from your behind.  So don’t move!”  And Slyguy did just that.  But he did it so fast that Skeeter didn’t have time to latch his own feet onto the Frisbee and ended up dropping to the ground headfirst with a boink!

“Ooooooooooooooooooo…”  Skeeter boiled.

But Speedy was quick, “Skeeter!  We did it!  We beat the Pink Team by a mile!  We’re going to win the game for sure!  You’ve got to get up, and brush yourself off so we can head out and find that last scavenged item on the list!  Like you said, those misfits will learn not to mess with us!”

Skeeter liked that answer.  So he got up, dusted off the dirt from his head to his toes, bent down to pick up the fishing pole and jammed it hard into the earth so that it would stand upright giving Alfy’s team a clear message.  Then he whistled to his teammates to follow him off The Hill in search of the last item all the while rubbing his sore behind with his right hand and the top of his head with his left hand.  He wasn’t angry anymore for he could almost taste The Win.


We love you Ellie Bean!
Love, Mom & Mimi